“Choosing Honor Over Revenge””-1 Samuel 25
Read 1 Samuel 25:33
Today’s Truth
David is insulted by a foolish man named Nabal, who refuses to help him and his men after they protected Nabal’s flocks. Furious, David sets out to destroy Nabal and everything he owns.
But Abigail—Nabal’s wise and courageous wife—steps in. She humbly approaches David, bringing food and an apology, and urges him not to stain his future with bloodshed out of anger. David listens, cools down, and blesses Abigail for her wisdom.
God uses Abigail to stop David from making a terrible mistake in a moment of rage.
Discussion Questions
- Have you ever almost made a bad decision because you were angry or offended?
- Who in your life acts like an “Abigail”—someone who speaks wisdom and helps you slow down?
- How can you learn to listen for God’s wisdom before you react emotionally?
Application
Pause before reacting today.
If you feel offended, angry, or hurt, take a deep breath and ask: “God, what would wisdom look like right now?”
Thank your “Abigails.”
Reach out to someone who has spoken wisdom into your life before. Thank them for helping you walk in the right direction.
Be an Abigail for someone else.
If you see a friend about to make a bad choice out of emotion, lovingly speak truth and help guide them back to peace.
Wise voices—and a humble heart to listen—can save us from a lifetime of regret.
