Is the Work of Discipline Worth It-2 Samuel 14
Read 2 Samuel 14:28
Today’s Truth
David’s son Absalom had killed his brother for raping his sister. Absalom ran away. When Absalom returned, David refused to see him. So, Absalom set Joab’s barley on fire to get David’s attention.
The chaos in David’s family was another example of how failing to follow God’s instructions created calamity. When David failed to discipline his children, he was ignoring God’s command to love Him and love others.
Discussion Questions
- Are you modeling a disciplined life? What’s one step you can take today to model self-discipline?
- In what area have you failed to discipline or shepherd your children? What is one thing you need to change?
Application
“The LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in” Proverbs 3:12. Setting boundaries and holding our children accountable keeps them safe and expresses our love. We may feel rotten, but letting our children do anything they want leads to heartache and the self-centered lifestyle we see in David’s family.
Jesus is “the good shepherd” who protects, guides, and provides (John 10). Jesus disciplines us because He loves us. Looking to His example and building barriers in our children’s lives keeps them from danger and provides a loving place where they can learn to follow Jesus.
